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Finding Self

The search for self is one of the most important journeys you can take. With that, the rest falls into place. Here, in this YouTube Video, Eckhart Tolle teaches us how to find peace with ourselves and our relationships, yes, including the difficult ones in life!

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The Gorgeous, Sexy and Rich Series is published by Marshall Cavendish International Asia. Norma also writes for the Singapore Women's Weekly in a regular column on financial and career matters for women.

Budget Spreadsheet

This is a simple Budget Spreadsheet. Like in all budgets, simple is best.  The most important part of the budget spreadsheet is the WILLPOWER to save, and then to invest. This is not written anywhere but in your mind and heart.

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Notes:

1. The most important part is B1- saving for your financial independence.  To do this, I would advise setting aside a portion of your salary every month.  Sign-up for GIRO facility from the bank, and GIRO 10% of your salary every month to another account.  For the other account, call it your ‘Freedom Account’.  Whatever you do, never ever change that GIRO instruction.  When the 10% accumulates sufficiently, you must learn to invest.

Set the date of the GIRO to be on your PAYDAY. Not one day later, and certainly not at the end of the month.  First principle of Life Saving – Save Yourself. After you have done that, then you deal with the rest.

2.  If you can afford more than 10%, then do more than 10%.

3.  When you receive a bonus, Pay into your Freedom Account FIRST before you use the bonus.  Well, are you serious about being financially independent?  Yes?  Then do it.  Forget about treating yourself.  This is the treat!  Freedom!  Every cent in there is another cent closer to saying ‘Goodbye’ to your boss and having to be chained to your job.

4.  If your expenses are higher than your income, the options are:

a.  Get higher income

b.  Tighten expenses

c.   Get a windfall

I think (b) is the most useful discipline.  (a) without (b) is not useful.  Right?  So get (b) into order, and then work on (a).  For (c), it is not buying 4-D or Pools.  (I have never ever gambled and never ever will.)

p/s:  If you really earn less than you spend, have you considered ‘Eat less chicken, more tofu, less cinema, more time with family, less shopping, more walking in Singapore’s free parks … it can be done… and no designer coffee or limit it… coffee from kopi-tiam shop is good enough… I do not believe in designer coffee… a little luxury every day makes one big fat hole at the end of the month… more about these thoughts in my emails to come… see you then!’

Page 64-65 of Gorgeous Sexy and Rich
‘A Budget to Spend Like Crazy’
Amount $
A TOTAL INCOME
Salary
Rentals and Commissions
Dividends and Interests
Others
B1 SAVINGS= FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE ACCOUNT
Savings for Retirement
Savings for Investment
Savings for Children’s Education
B2 FIXED EXPENSES
Car Loan
Home Mortgage
Insurance
B3 REQUIRED EXPENSES
Groceries
Utilities
Phone
Transport
Domestic Helper
Others
B4 DISCRETIONARY EXPENSES
Clothing
Entertainment
Eating Out
Hobbies/Sports
Vacations
TOTAL EXPENSES
B TOTAL SAVINGS & EXPENSES  (B = B1+ B2+B3+B4)
ADDITIONAL CASH TO SPEND OR SAVE   (A-B)



SINGAPORE WOMEN’S WEEKLY SPECIAL IN MARCH 2011 ON MONEY MATTERS!

Watch for Norma's articles in the Singapore Women's Weekly (SWW) beginning October 2010 Issue.

Talk and Slides

"Why Men Prefer Financially Independent Women"
INVEST Fair 2010
Marina Bay Sands Convention
22 August 2010
12.00 -1.00 pm

Report on the Event: The Event went well and more than the hall was filled with MEN who wanted to know how women think. I will be uploading my slides here by end of September. Watch this space.

Spirituality

'We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.'
Teilhard de Chardin
(French Geologist, Priest, Philosopher and Mystic, 1881-1995)

Thoughts on Love

Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well.

- Vincent van Gogh

The more I think it over, the more I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.

- Vincent van Gogh

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Singapore Women's Weekly With Mentor Ophelia Cheung, 2004 Wat Chedi Luang, North Thailand, 2006 Bangkok, 2004

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